Sunday, 5 October 2014

Day 33 – Sunday, October 5, 2014

When I was approaching Historic Deerfield on October 1st, it came to me that Abigail Nims, who was captured at the age of 3 and never returned to Deerfield remembered something of her origins.
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“I, Godfrey Nims stood, for a long time, with my back to where my house stood before it burned down.  Only a short while ago, I was a happy husband.  Mehitable and I had 20 descendants.  Now she is gone.  My children Sarah, John, Ebenezer and little Abigail have been taken too. I feel so helpless.  Could I have done something differently to save my family?”


“Where is Father? Why does he not come looking for me?” (Abigail Nims)

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Today, before beginning our trip back home we again enjoyed having breakfast served at Country Cape B&B and the other guests Cathy and Bill Smart.  Cathy is taking a 6-day workshop in Deerfield on quilting techniques to interpret photos and to use bold, contrasting prints.  


And I got a chance to talk with Gary, who was washing the dishes, and to find out about his life from the time he was at Carleton University.  A full and varied life.  Hugs to all.











We took time to visit Magic Wings, which had not happened the previous day.  A great way to end our visit to Massachusetts, Dean: thank you for suggesting it.

Now we are in our last B & B outside Richfield Springs in the state of New York: by a lakeside, on our own with all the amenities.

Day 32 - Saturday, October 4, 2014

Wednesday -rain
Thursday - sunny
Friday - sunny
Saturday - rain!

I got to visit the Nims house!  It belongs to the Academy in Historic Deerfield.  Two professors of the Academy live in it.

Unfortunately, it was a day of non-synchronicities, and I did not get to spend the time in the way I wanted.  I had forgotten my bag with journal, pencils, watercolours! So I did not get to return to the burial mound we had visited the previous day let along spend time there.

Instead, I went to stand for an hour, mountain pose, at the front door of the Nims house (Godfrey & Mehitable's lot; house rebuilt  in 1710 by son John (captured 1703, returned 1705); remodelled in 1728 and last year_to the displeasure of the Historic Society.)


In the evening, the Nims Family Association met for buffet dinner at Champney's within the Old Deerfield Inn.  I learned that hurricane Irene had caused damage to the Deerfield Inn and it had been closed for 2 years.  Delicious and beautifully-presented food, which ended with Indian pudding.  The pudding has cornmeal in it.  It reminded me of the spice cake I made in my younger days.

I have searched for a recipe:




Indian Pudding
4 cups milk
½ cup cornmeal
2 Tbsp. butter
½ cup molasses
½ cup maple syrup (preferably Grade B)
1 tsp. salt
½ tsp. cinnamon
½ tsp. ginger
Pinch nutmeg
2 eggs, well beaten
Preheat oven to 325°F.  Butter a 2-quart casserole dish.
In a medium pot, bring milk to a gentle simmer.  Very slowly whisk in cornmeal briskly to prevent clumping.  Cook for 20 minutes, adjusting heat to maintain a gentle simmer, until mixture has thickened and coats the back of a spoon well.  Remove from heat.  Stir in the butter, molasses, maple syrup, salt, and spices until well blended.  Temper the eggs, meaning slowly whisk in about ¼ cup of the hot pudding mixture to the beaten eggs, then return tempered mixture to the pot.  This prevents the eggs from scrambling.
Pour mixture into a buttered casserole dish and bake about 1½ hours, until center is set (the center will still be soft, but you don’t want it to look liquidy).  Some recipes call for a water bath (i.e., set the casserole dish in a larger pan, then pour boiling water into the outer pan until it reaches halfway up the sides of the pudding dish), but I’ll be honest, I don’t bother.  This right here is the Indian pudding of my childhood.  Let sit at least 20 minutes.  Serve warm with vanilla bean ice cream.

Local Sources:
Milk: Our Family Farms of Massachusetts, Greenfield, MA
Cornmeal: Winter Moon Organic Farm, Hadley, MA
Butter: Mendon Creamery, Mendon, MA
Maple syrup: Williams Farm Sugarhouse, Old Deerfield, MA
Eggs: Chip-In Farm, Bedford, MA


Day 31 - Friday, October 3, 2014

Pauline and I went for a 3-mile walk on the roads around our B&B in the morning while Dean went for a long run.





After that we headed to Deerfield to pick up current info on the Nims reunion.  We then headed to the  cemetery.  It was an emotional moment making my way to the burial mound, as if it was family I had known and loved.




In the evening, Pauline and I met with the other Nims descendants who had gathered in Greenfield for a buffet dinner organized by the Nims Family association.  I thought we would be the only Francophones apart from Lise and Louis Ménard from Montréal who had organized the last reunion.  We weren't.  There was one from Ottawa.  And a couple from Guelph!  Turns out the direct descendant living in Guelph was born and raised in Kapuskasing! H. Thérèse Gagné. The Nims must be everywhere!

Dean chose to stay home.

I had been asked that morning by the president, Betsy, if I would take a few minutes after dinner to tell of my walk.  Dean advised that I asked how many minutes, set the timer on my iPhone, and stop when it rang.  As it turned out Betsy did not give me a time.  I spoke briefly.  Betsy suggested I do questions & answer these.  Pauline chose not to speak formally.  We got a standing from the 63 other people in attendance!




Day 30 – Thursday, October 2, 2014

In my dream, I introduce Kathy, a curler I know to Cathy Proulx, my massage therapist.

In wakefulness, this does not surprise me as I have recently noticed that unbeknownst to me, people I know from different walks of life know each other e.g. Cathy Proulx knows Jane Goldspink.  And that the other Kathy, whose last name I can’t remember this morning, knows Ronna Yallup.

I drive and we find our B&B, The Country Cape Bed & Breakfast run by Nancy and Gary Wilson in Whately, MA. 

I have been looking forward to meeing Nancy & Gary as he went to Carleton University in Ottawa at the same time as I did.  And his sister-in-law, who lives out west in Canada is a direct Nims descendant too!

We bring our things in.  Nancy says we can do a wash & dry in!:~)  We ask Nancy to recommend a restaurant that offers healthy food and is good value. She recommends Paul & Elizabeth in Northampton.  It does not disappoint.  I have one of the nights specialties, Faroe Island salmon with pureed autumn vegetables and green beans with a salad.  Succulent! I have a glass of wine: My Daily Red.  Dean and I share the banana cream pie with whipped cream.  The crust is awesome: their own maple walnut honey granola crust. Dean and I have no problem enjoying every last morsel. We talk about the girls’ college, Smith College and the large mural in tribute to women from 1600 to the present.  Northampton is a woman-friendly city says our waitress.

Back at the B&B, I put my ice pack on my right foot and work on my blog in the living room.  As Nancy and I talk, she mentions her sister-in-law’s name, the one whose mother was a Nims.  Her name is Cathi Wilson.  That’s the same name as the person I was introducing to Catherine Proulx in my dream!  I hadn’t been able to remember Kathy’s last name until I heard Nancy say it!  This is the third dream I have while on this journey, that coincides with something to come during the next day!

)What also surprises me now, about this dream is that my unconscious put these two together! I only now realize that Kathy gave me massages before Cathy did!)

Nancy has a beautiful home.  I am amazed that we have a sofa that looks like the same make (mine, I remember, was made in the U.S.)  



Another armchair has a similar greenish flame pattern_mine, an armchair given to me, that I had chosen fabric for reupholstering.  (No photo! I was going to take one, then I thought I would wait 'til Pauline sat in it again; but I forgot!) Some old brass bells are the same as Dean & I have!




Gary painted 30 years ago: the paintings are geometrical, beautiful and accomplished.  

I have picked Are You Somebody? by Nuela O’Faolain off their bookshelf to read while we are here over the next 3 days.


Thursday, 2 October 2014

Day 29 – Wednesday, October 1st, 2014

I’d awoken from a nightmare of lost child, of a little blue hand that broke when I’d picked it up.  It was set in the day of touch-tone phones.  In the dream, I was over-heated with anxiety.  I was happy to get out of that dream and be sung to by Dean from across the screen tent.

Within the tent, I dressed quickly: bathing suit, rain pants and rain coat.  Ate eggs and toast under the orange, nylon tarp.  Unusually I was ready first.  We only have 8 more miles to go before we reach Historic Deerfield.

It took an hour of driving to get to our starting point. Dean took a photo of Pauline and I at starting point as per usual. 

And off we went while Dean moved the car up.  He would move the car up 4 km. unless he first found the road leading to Eunice Williams’ tombstone.  The usual sounds this morning, insects, boots & walking stick in contact with asphalt, and the added swish of our rain pants and raincoats.

Dean was back not long into the walk.  He’d driven 600 meters and found the off-road leading to the tombstone.  It was 300 meters in (and out), so I decided we’d walk it.  As we turned off the bi-way, I felt it: the emotion of going to see this place.  Mehitable, Abigail’s mother, had been killed the fourth day into the march. 

Back, but while we were in Bellows Falls, I did not even think of it.  The grey stone was close to the river on an embankment.  It was dated 1884 and told us that Eunice had been killed on March 1, 1704, therefore on the first day of the march.  Those who put up the stone had had it engraved with words written by her husband, the Reverend Williams whose book continues to be published to this day.

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There is also another unrelated marker to the left of the stone: this brass marker lists the many workers who reconstructed the covered bridge in 1972.The covered bridge was actually being worked on, on the land next to another sign about Eunice.  We spoke with the 3 construction workers there and I shook hands with them.  Jason was the most talkative one. 




All 3 Vermonters were friendly.  We found out that a kid had burned down the covered bridge in 1972.  This time, it was simply maintenance.  The town of Greenfield was paying for the work. Only 5 workers were needed in this day and age, with lots of technology.  I also noted that Jason spit out something brown. Chewing tobacco?  Yes.  Grizzly? Pauline had noticed and recognized chewing tobacco cans along the road.  I told him I’d even photographed some.  When Antonio the engineer came along, we got him to take a photo of the three of us together, this being only the second one of Dean, Pauline and I.







Before we left, I walked down to the river bank.  I didn’t have my rubber boots with me.  The river was rocky so I walked carefully to be amid the river.  The 1704 group had walked along Deerfield River first.  I chose a small rock: it was black with small blood-like reddish-brown marks. I placed it in my rainjacket pocket and zipped it for safe keeping.



We walked back the 300 metres and set off again.  The only unusual thing for me was that I did not take any breaks when we got to the car.  I was energized by the end in sight and the wetness of the day. When we got to Greenfield’s Main Street, I decide to ask to use the washroom at a nail salon.  It was run by American citizens of Asian descendance.  There was a row of foot-bath chairs like so many treadmills.  The attendants wore surgical masks while doing foot and nail care.  One client sat with her child in her lap while on one of the foot-bath chairs.  I saw small children that must have been the children. Once in the back, I looked for the toilet door.  One door said Magic Child.  How intriguing!  I refrained from turning the door knob.

When I came out on the street again, Pauline was nowhere to be seen.  I knew that we were looking for a "xxx Court" where we would turn left.  Pauline had the directions. (Dean was the one who planned out the route and made changes as we went along, whenever we heard of a trail or better route.  Pauline read the map each morning.  At one point, I worried that I wasn’t more involved in figuring our route.  I did assist in interpreting what was on Pauline’s paper, as in the previous day’s walk.  When I thought of 3-year old Abigail, who was likely carried along, I realized there was no need for me to worry about the map and the route.)  I heard Pauline call out my name from behind me.  She was behind the door of The Magic Child, a toy store.  Pauline had finally found something to her liking to put all the change she’d been collecting along the road. (The most recent find had been the day before, where she pried two dimes out of the rubberized material used to repairs cracks in the asphalt.) 



As  Pauline made her purchase, the woman asked my friend if she was local.  So I told her of our walk.  She shared that Deerfield had had plays about the raid.  The audience played parts.  One play they would be the captives.  Another night the audience would play the part of the natives going through the woods.

Pauline found the Court Square where we had to turn: we only knew by the sign.  Walked downhill and under an underpass. We hesitated: which way were we to turn? There was no “Old Main Street” was to be seen.  A woman with a broken umbrella made a psst sound. I turned and asked her. She walked with us explaining how to get to Greenfield.  She would have liked to take us there by car.  She would have liked to give me her book about the boy who was taken to Canada and buy herself another copy but she wasn’t sure where she had it. I said I would look for it when we got to the Deerfield Bookstore. As a newspaper reporter approached us, she dropped back and was gone.  Were we in front of her house?

And a minute later, Dean was with us. The reporter had had a call from the saleswoman at The Magic Child.  He had another interview to conduct but he took a few notes, including how to contact us, and he took a photo of the 3 of us.

RAVioli was parked in Historic Deerfield. The three of us continued to walk.  We came to a bridge over a river.  There was a sign about Deerfield announcing it was incorporated in 1673.  It had been a frontier town back in 1704.

Pauline was ahead again at that point.





When we saw the sign for Historic Deerfield, Pauline asked me to take her photo with her ipad.



I had let Dean take my iphone to the car for fear it would get too wet within the zipped pocket of my rainjacket.  Dean had a camera and he took a photo.  We were now on route 5. The traffic was moving fast. My right foot hurt. I was getting keen on arriving.

Finally we came to Old Main Street.  I had no patience to wait.  Without hesitation, I stuck out my walking stick. The traffic stopped first from my left and then on the right.  We crossed.

We walked a ways before arriving at the street lined with historic houses.  I did not notice that the RAVioli was parked there.  Passed couples of people walking casually with umbrellas open.  There were markers indicating who had lived there back in 1704.  No Nims house to be found.  At one point we came to the Museum.  I told the attendant behind the counter that we had just walked in from Montreal and that I was a direct descendant of Abigail Nims.  So he got out a map circled where the Nims house was.  He said that they did not own that home; it was privately owned.  It was painted yellow. Then he circled another museum where Sally, a direct Nims descendant worked.  He said she would be able to show me the stone where a house had been hidden in the snow on that fateful day.  I knew he was referring to the Munn’s, Abigail’s sister and her brother-in-law, who lived in a “temporary shelter” and who was saved because their house was not seen.

I walked down the sidewalk with determination.  I saw the yellow house whose walls were not perpendicular to the ground. This was the house that John, Abigail’s brother rebuilt in 1710 in place of their home that had been burned February 29, 1704. This was where the walk would end officially.  I might not be able to go inside the house but I was going to go up the walkway and sit on the step in front of the house.






The rainiest day of our walk seemed suitable as I completed my art performance, my “life performance” (Deborah at Earthstar Pottery) of Abigail Nims who was twice baptized.